Sadomasochism, S&M, Switch, Vanilla, Flogger, and Dom – this pleasurable form of play has its own language. Even among escorts, there are some who offer and enjoy this service at certain levels. “Bondage, Discipline, Sadism, Masochism” – This is what the four capital letters stand for.
On a physical level, “B” and “D” are used: bondage games and discipline for erotic pleasure, either as the performer or the recipient. On a psychological level, “S” and “M” represent dominance and submission, on the mental level of sadomasochism, or sadism and masochism.
The games colloquially known as “sadomasochism” serve to create pleasure by creating unequal power relations between the partners. Which side you take is a matter of personal preference. The so-called “Dom,” also “Top or Domme,” is the dominant part who exercises power over the “Sub” or “Bottom,” i.e., the submissive part. No matter what distribution or “switch” is practiced, i.e., the reversal of roles: voluntariness and trust are paramount.
Fetish with variety
Hitting with the hand is called “spanking”, the elaborate and artistic tying up of a partner is called “bondage”. If someone asks you about your “kinks” they mean your particular preference, and there are numerous possibilities. But don’t confuse them with “fetishes”, which are always object-related, e.g. whip fetish, car fetish, etc. Indispensable for all variations and fantasies: the safe word or stop word. When spoken out loud, it ends the respective action in an absolutely binding manner. If one of the partners just wants to take things a little slower, so-called “slow words” are used, for example to lessen the intensity.
Shades of Grey all around!
Ever since the cult novel trilogy about “Dom” Christian Grey and his “Subs”, the scene has become socially acceptable. Light BDSM is now mainstream. The pleasure of pain is a desire that everyone now dares to express. Do you want to live it out, too? A gentle introduction, together with an experienced companion, is certainly ideal to see what suits you. Give us a call and book an in-call BDSM escort today, and you won’t need to buy any toys. Or mention your likes on the phone and we can send you an outcall escort, with all the toys and tools.
Are you fascinated by the playroom full of fantastic tools, instruments, and utensils? In fact, everything from nipple clamps to masks, gags, and all kinds of whips is often used here, as well as collars, tight bodysuits, and numerous electronic toys like dildos. Latex and leather, strapon dildos, neck restraints, and spreader clamps for various body holes – there are almost no limits to the imagination. Provided it’s voluntary and clear rules apply. Then both Dom and Sub can derive their own pleasure.