Fetishes from A to Z: this is a list of the most common and daring sex practices.
Knowing what matters
When it comes to fetishes, it’s important – as is almost always the case with sex – to know exactly what you’re trying, which aspects might be pleasurable, and what problems could arise. And: how to feel as safe as possible when trying new things.
These are some of the most common and popular fetishes and sex practices from A to Z.
A is for age play
Age play is a special form of classic role-playing in which sex partners slip into the role of another person or a specific professional group in order to seduce each other.
Age play involves pretending that one’s partner is significantly younger or older than they actually are. Strictly speaking, age play begins with small gestures, such as calling one’s partner “Daddy” or “Baby” in bed, but it also includes more elaborate role-playing scenarios where one partner acts as an older or younger seductress. Have you passed your first youth and want someone to call you daddy? Call us and book a teen escort for tonight, and have your wish come true! Don’t worry, they’re all of legal age. And if you are a young man, maybe you want someone with experience – take a look at our milf escorts gallery and take a pick! You may imagine a roleplay – stepmom sex, sexy aunt, friend’s slutty mother, student and older teacher, sex with the boss’s wife, there are lots of scenarios to choose from.
B is for BDSM & Bondage
Yes, exactly, “Fifty Shades of Grey.” That’s probably the first association most people have who aren’t familiar with the BDSM scene. BDSM stands for “bondage”, “discipline”, “domination”, “submission”, “sadism”, “and “masochism” – in other words, restraint, punishment play, dominant and submissive behavior, and sadism and masochism.
As you can see, BDSM has many facets and can be practiced at all levels of intensity. From binding the hands and eyes with a tie or belt to handcuffs and professional restraint equipment from a fetish shop. But also acting out punishment fantasies, deliberately (and with the necessary safety precautions!) administered spanking, from a light smack on the bottom to the use of whips – all of this is BDSM.
Usually one partner takes the dominant role and the other the subversive one, but switching roles can also be exciting.
Above all, BDSM is about trust, because whoever takes on the subversive role in BDSM play gives their partner a great deal of power and surrenders themselves to a certain degree. With enough practice, relinquishing control or taking control will be an exciting and pleasurable experience – but even here: before it gets to that point, we remember to have chosen a safe word beforehand.
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C is for Cuckolding
Cuckolding is generally understood to mean when a heterosexual couple agrees that the woman will sleep with another man or men. Her partner doesn’t necessarily have to be in the room – some people are aroused by the mere thought of their partner being intimate with another man. Other men who practice cuckolding with their partners, however, enjoy being in the room and watching them with another man, sometimes even masturbating. Although traditionally considered a heterosexual practice, people of all genders and sexual orientations can participate. And cuckolding doesn’t have to take place only behind closed doors; swinger parties are also a popular way for cuckolding enthusiasts to explore and act out their own sexuality, jealousy, and desires.
D is for Dogging
Dogging is a British slang term for sex in public or watching others have sex.
Dogging typically involves two parties (sometimes more) who arrange to meet and then watch the other couple have sex, and vice versa. However, this practice is not without its risks, as in many countries dogging falls under laws against voyeurism, exhibitionism, or the public display of sexual behavior. A number of offenses can be prosecuted, especially if dogging takes place in public. Therefore, anyone wishing to try dogging with a partner and/or friends should use a private space or, if their own living room is too intimate for such an experiment, rent a hotel room or Airbnb.
E is for electrical stimulation
Some people are aroused by electric shocks and deliberately incorporate them into their sex play. This practice is called electrostimulation.
These can be applied at any time, whether during foreplay or to stimulate climax. To test electrostimulation at home, however, there’s no need for dangerous DIY modifications to your own electrical devices; instead, you can choose the right one from the now very wide selection of electrostimulation sex toys, such as those offered by Magic Moments, Bondara, Sinful and similar sexshops.
Furthermore, most toys have various adjustable intensity levels, allowing you to gradually approach the electrifying pleasure. An electrowand is probably the most simple to use and the safest.
F is for foot fetishism
Most people have probably heard of foot fetishism. However, very few know much about it and only associate it with OnlyFans channels or websites where some people make money by selling pictures of their feet.
Foot fetishes are one of the most common fetishes overall.
Someone with a foot fetish, as the name suggests, is attracted to feet – they enjoy looking at them, touching them, kissing them, and perhaps even licking them. And often, a foot fetish overlaps with a form of submissive fantasy, as seen in BDSM play. In this case, it arouses people to literally throw themselves at the feet of the person they want to be intimate with.
But even foot massages or gently walking your feet on your partner’s back can evoke a pleasant feeling of connection in some people, or even arouse them – even those who would never admit to having a foot fetish. Again, the only way to be sure is to try it!
Other fetishes that start with F: fat fetishism, fashion fetishism, feminization.
G is for Gagging
For some a nightmare, for others an exciting game of erotic play: “Gagging” is a sexual practice in which some people enjoy being gagged, choked, or strangled with implements such as ball gags or a body part like a finger or hand. The submissive person’s air supply is usually slightly restricted, or their mouth is bound in such a way that speaking becomes difficult or impossible.
In this case, even a safe word won’t help, so before attempting this fetish, it’s absolutely essential to agree on another signal that your partner can use when they sense they’ve reached a limit. This could be a hand signal or a wink: the main thing is that the other person knows immediately when your partner wants to end the scene.
H is for Hose (pantyhose) Fetish
Some people are particularly attracted to intimate scents and therefore incorporate the underwear of sexual partners or strangers into foreplay, solo sex, or intercourse. The stockings fetish is so widespread that there’s even a large online marketplace where (mostly) women can sell their worn garments to (mostly) men. It’s worth noting that there are several safety precautions to take, especially regarding the protection of your personal data online.
Other “H” fetishes are hand fetish, hair fetish and humiliation.
I is for Impact Play
Considered a form of BDSM, impact play is generally where one person is struck by their sexual partner for the pleasure of one or both parties. Some people enjoy being whipped with a ‘stingy’ whip, while others might prefer a ‘thud’ from a paddle. Impact play can be: whipping, slapping, trampling, spanking, caning or CBT.
J as in JOE/JOI
JOE, or JOI, refers to the sex practice where one partner becomes aroused by watching their partner masturbate. Incidentally, this is more than just an exciting fetish; it can even be a good way to learn more about how your partner likes to be touched. Whether talking, kissing, or simply watching takes place is entirely up to each partner.
K is for Klismaphilia
Klismaphilia means “arousal by enemas”. If you’re unsure what an enema is, it’s similar to colon irrigation. Basically, an enema is when you get warm water squirted into your bum, with the purpose of cleaning your insides, usually as preparation for anal sex, and sometimes for medical reasons.
Enemas are most commonly carried out by hospitals prior to medical procedures, but some people get turned on by having an enema (or giving one to somebody else). Most people will use enemas as a way to prepare the anus for anal sex, so it’s handy that you enjoy it if you like anal.
There is a whole section of porn dedicated to klismaphilia – you can find lots of porn movies involving girls giving each other milk enemas and squirting it into each other’s mouths. That kind of ass-play sometimes evolves into anal rimming, queening and anal threesomes or orgies. This is a fetish that may be less known, but has many fans.
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L is for latex fetish
It’s not just latex, it’s also rubber and pvc. Generally, it’s the liquid look fetish. Who is not attracted to characters like Cat Woman, Bat Woman, Emma Frost, Harley Quinn or Black Widow?
Many also find the wearing of latex or nylon stockings during sex arousing, if only because this image of women has long been a fixed part of sex scenes and pornography. Catsuits are also very important in this fetish.
There are also people who develop a veritable “latex addiction”. They experience sexual stimulation, satisfaction, and arousal when their partner wears latex.
M is for Masochism
Masochism is one of the most important fetishes. This is the “M” in BDSM. It means getting sexual arousal from enduring physical and emotional pain. It also means having an intense sexual desire, fantasies or behaviors involving the use of certain objects or the practice of certain activities that cause humiliation or suffering.
N is for Nose fetishism
The Nose fetishism, or nasophilia is a form of partialism – a particular attraction for the nose. This may include the sexual attraction to a specific form of physical particularity of appearance (such as shape and size), or a specific area of the nose, like the bridge or the nostrils.
Some nose fetishists have a desire for actual physical contact with someone’s nose, or specific fantasies such as the desire to penetrate the nostrils with the penis, tongue or with a finger (comparable with fingering). Nose fetishism can also include the desire to ejaculate on her nose or in her nostrils. Some people with this fetish masturbate while looking at someone with a nose they find extremely attractive. Some men with this fetish also enjoy pinching their partner’s nose so that she opens her mouth to breathe, and taking the opportunity to deep french kiss them or even insert their penis in her mouth until she gags.
Oh, like orgasm denial!
Orgasm denial typically falls under the umbrella of BDSM, but is also frequently practiced by individuals who otherwise have little exposure to these sexual practices. This kink plays with the feeling of deprivation, with one partner abruptly ending their caresses just before their other’s climax. At worst, this practice can be frustrating, while at best it can produce a more intense orgasm, as the prior denial causes arousal to build up and intensify.
P is for Penis Humiliation
This kink involves insulting a man’s penis. Usually the man will enjoy having the size, appearance and performance of his penis mocked and laughed at. This is another kink that falls under the BDSM umbrella term. It can be part of the humiliation fetish.
Q is for Queening
In queening, one person sits on their partner’s face to perform oral sex, which may include both the genitals and anus. The person on top positions themselves in a spread-eagle position while their partner performs oral sex on them. This is the definition of face sitting. It’s basically oral sex, while the man is submissive.
R is for role-playing games
Role-playing games can take many different forms – but at their core, they involve people playing characters or stories to arouse each other. It can overlap with many other forms of play, such as medical fetishes or age play, and can be a great way to escape everyday reality for a while. Role-playing can involve costumes and props, but can also be conducted through sexting and dirty talk.
S is for sensory deprivation
Sensory deprivation refers to the practice of consciously restricting some senses during sex in order to heighten the use of others. An example of this would be a person wearing a blindfold and earplugs to focus more intensely on what they can feel.
T is for Tickling fetish
Tickle fetishism, also known as titillagnia is a fetish where someone gets sexual pleasure from tickling, being tickled, or watching someone be tickled. Tickle fetishists are dominant or submissive, called ler (tickler) and lee (ticklee). Sometimes, they’re switchers. They may prefer some areas better than others, and they sometimes use bondage restraints.
U is for Uniform Fetish
Who hasn’t heard of the uniform fetish? If only because uniforms are frequently used in comedies, when the protagonist fantasizes about the hot firefighter or police officer. The uniform fetish often revolves around fantasies of power and dominance associated with the respective profession depicted, and it’s frequently combined with role-playing. Who wouldn’t submit to a young police woman with high heels, hand cuffs, a short skirt and pantyhose?
V is for voyeurism
Voyeurism is primarily about observing others. It doesn’t involve spying on strangers through their living room windows, but rather people with whom one has consciously arranged to engage in this sexual practice. This could be a single sexual partner whom one observes masturbating, or another couple whom one watches having sex and, for example, masturbates while watching.
W is for Wax Play
Wax play is part of BDSM. It involves experimenting with the tingling sensations and stimuli that arise when hot wax is poured over the body in a kind of temperature play. The skin reacts with irritation and goes into a state of heightened alertness, which can intensify the perception of subsequent touches. So all sensations that follow wax play, including the orgasms, are amplified. Imagine having a third person dripping hot wax on you while already having sex with someone!
The candles specially designed for erotic wax play melt at a lower temperature than ordinary wax. This allows you to play with the temperature without risking burns. Best of all: these candles are made of solid massage oil, so the burnt-on fake wax can be used directly for further touches and caresses without irritating the skin. So wax play can be a prequel to an oily massage. And guess what – having sex while wet or oily is an entirely new fetish – sploshing or wet & messy fetishism. This is a fetish where individuals get excited by seeing people covered in messy substances, including oils, lotions, mud, or food. This can be a visual or tactile fetish, involving the sensation of the substance on the skin.
Take note, you should not use the melted candle wax as a sex lubricant. It is guaranteed to cause irritation.
Z is for zelophilia
Zelophilia, derived from the Latin word “zelo” meaning “zeal,” is the sexual preference that also enables the sex practice of cuckolding. For those with a tendency towards zelophilia, the otherwise negatively connoted emotion of jealousy has a pleasure-enhancing effect. Unlike cuckolding, where the partner actually sleeps with other people, this isn’t necessarily the case; simply incorporating the idea of sex with people outside the circle of sexual partners into dirty talk can be enough. Whether one then goes a step further and acts on these fantasies is entirely up to the individual.