Forced bi (forced bisexuality) is a BDSM scenario in which a dominant partner makes the Sub engage in sexual activity with someone of the same sex. This practice is frequently seen in heterosexual relationships, with the Dom partner often being female and the submissive partner male. The motivation behind such scenarios can be both the exploration of sexuality and the exercise of control and humiliation.
Opportunities and possibilities
Exploring Sexuality
For many subs, but very often especially men, Forced Bi can be a way to explore their bisexual fantasies without having to directly identify as bisexual. It offers a framework in which they can test their boundaries. It doesn’t necessarily mean anal sex – it can be limited to kissing and blowjobs.
Strengthening the dynamic
Forced Bi scenarios can improve the relationship between Dom and Sub. A clear agreement on boundaries and safewords is crucial.
The game of power and control is exciting for both partners. The feeling of being “forced” can increase arousal, as it is often associated with a taboo.
Dangers and risks of forced bi
Emotional Stress
The Sub can take Forced Bisexuality very hard. There is a risk that they will feel very uncomfortable, like in a real rape situation. Therefore, having safewords is really important.
Stigmatization
In many cultures, same-sex sexuality is still taboo. This can lead to internal conflict, especially for men who identify as straight. The fear of social stigmatization can negatively affect the experience.
Misunderstandings about consent
Although the word “forced” implies that the submissive partner is coerced, it is important to emphasize that all participants must consent to the scene. Misunderstandings about consent can lead to serious problems. In this case, “forced” is like the rape fantasy roleplay – it’s not actually a rape.
Differences between male and female subs
Forced bi is particularly common among male submissives. This is due to several factors.
Societal norms
Men are often faced with the pressure to prove or question their sexuality. Forced Bi offers a way to circumvent these norms while simultaneously exploring sexual fantasies.
Humiliation as a source of arousal
Many men experience humiliation as part of their sexual arousal. Being “forced” into same-sex activities can be perceived as particularly humiliating and thus increase arousal.
Permission to explore
The dominatrix gives the male sub “permission” to live out his fantasies, which reduces pressure and makes the experience easier.
Forced bi scenarios are much rarer among female subs.
Less societal pressure
Women often face less pressure to prove or question their sexuality. Many female submissives identify more clearly with their sexual orientation. And it’s no secret, a bisexual woman is also more appealing to men. Maybe it’s because almost all men have the threesome fantasy, or that they like watching lesbian porn?
Different sources of arousal
While many men find humiliation arousing, women often seek other forms of arousal that are not necessarily associated with the compulsion to engage in same-sex interaction. And while for men it’s mostly the pleasure of being humiliated, for a woman sub may be a different kind of pleasure: it may be a domination shift – it may be humiliating another woman. Maybe strapping-on a dildo and fucking hard her own sub! Would that make her a switch?
Cultural stereotypes
Female bisexuality is often romanticized or fetishized, which leads to women being less likely to find themselves in a forced bi scenario. They may experience being with a woman in college.
Forced bi scenarios offer both opportunities and risks within the BDSM context. For male subs they can be a way to explore their sexuality and engage in power play. For female subs they are less common due to societal norms and individual preferences, even though FFM threesomes are more frequent than FMM threesomes in the BDSM scene. Somehow, it seems less likely for a woman to be forced Bi than to actually be Bi. It is crucial that all participants communicate openly and establish clear boundaries before implementing such scenarios.
There’s another point to consider. For most BDSM practitioners, regardless of gender, penetration is an active act that many equate with domination. A Dominatrix can have this act performed by a second man as a “tool,” and due to the widespread but false prejudice that masculinity is heterosexual, the Sub be further degraded.
Even though we don’t provide male escorts, if you want to explore Forced Bi, you can book a couple of domination escorts and try out this fantasy. You can have one or both of them wear a strapon and submit to one or both of them.