Men simply can’t help themselves – high heels are eye-catching, and that’s exactly what they do: look! At the long, slender legs of a woman whose feet look even more alluring in high heels, and certainly not just to shoe or foot fetishists. Whether with a miniskirt or fitted jeans, stilettos complete any feminine outfit. Wear high heels and you’ll win him over.
Why do high heels make women sexy?
The attraction for high heels lies in the virtual elongation legs, the enhanced shape of the buttocks, and the way they create a certain gait. Men find a woman’s overall appearance incredibly erotic – and high heels perfectly showcase her feet. Red and black high heels, in particular, are very appealing to men. If the sexy footwear is also made of patent leather, it creates a real “wow” effect. Women who are used to teetering through life in high heels score points with a particularly feminine and erotic walk.
High Heels – Shoes and Fetish
Many men have an unconscious fetish for feet and high heels. High heels are both shoes and an erotic fetish at the same time. In fact, they often bring new excitement to the bedroom. This might sound strange, because certainly not everyone can imagine going to bed in shoes. Which is a shame, really, because a woman in latex or erotic lingerie and high heels simply arouses desire for sex and adventure. Sometimes, all it takes to turn men on is a few little tricks. Sometimes you don’t even get to the lingerie part – he’s undressing you before you realize it and he’s bending you over the dining room table.
The effect is fantastic. Women who break down clichés, who don’t exclusively label high heels and lingerie as accessories of the red-light district, but instead surprise their own husband in just such an outfit, are on the right track.
High heels make a lovely birthday gift for a wife or girlfriend (if the shoe fits), just like sexy lingerie. If a man wants to enjoy the sight of beautiful, long legs in erotic high heels, why not take the initiative and give her a subtle hint? We all know that tall ladies are very attractive! Fetishism isn’t just about lingerie, latex or intimate jewelry; it definitely includes erotic shoes with high heels.
Exude erotic domination
Another secret to why men are attracted to high heels is the domination these shoes project. This doesn’t mean that women automatically become dominatrixes in the BDSM scene. High heels embody a certain self-assurance. Women who know what they want walk confidently – through life in high heels. This impresses men. Moreover, it even relieves many men. When a man feels he has a woman by his side who is strong, assertive, and has the necessary self-confidence to express her eroticism, it is often very arousing for him.
The dominant woman is quite popular with men. Often, these are simply women who make decisions, are used to calling the shots, and – admittedly – like to tell men what to do. That men often find this kind of domination anything but unpleasant is certainly one of their typical male traits. Undoubtedly, high heels embody an erotic domination that appeals to men.
This goes so far that some men specifically desire humiliation – even through the use of high heels. In these cases, either the dominatrix wears the high heels, or she uses her shoes or heels for punishment, for example during trampling.
High heels train muscles for orgasm
High heels train the pelvic floor muscles, which are also used during sex and orgasm. Several studies have shown that high heels force women to push their pelvis forward to maintain balance. This exercise has a positive effect on the PC muscle in the pelvic area. Strong pelvic floor muscles enable and support a woman’s orgasm. So wearing sexy shoes is more than just making the legs seem longer and the butt firmer. Women can train the pelvic floor muscles with Kegel exercises, pilates and .. sex! How do they get more sex? By walking in front of you wearing high heels, of course.
Take them off erotically or leave them on
The fact that high heels turn men on is undeniable. No one can resist the sight of a woman’s foot in high heels and legs in nylons. This erotic footwear scores points in many ways. Men appreciate that most high heels can be slipped off a woman’s foot with remarkable ease. At most, a small strap needs to be undone; with pumps, not even that is necessary. High heels are also the perfect starting point for licking your way up.
If you’re not in a hurry you have the advantage here. If a woman keeps her high heels on during foreplay, it’s the best start to a really hot sexy time. In fact, men often say their type is women wearing high heels.