There are many methods and techniques you can use to improve your sex life. Let’s see how cunnilingus can be one of these techniques.
Cunnilingus is a sexual practice that requires a great deal of trust and a little bit of technique. To help you bring your girl to unforgettable orgasms with your mouth and tongue, we’ve compiled the best techniques and tips for you.
Why cunnilingus?
While giving her cunnilingus, you have the unique opportunity to explore the areas that give her the most pleasure. Based on her reactions, you’ll learn what she likes most, which movements and touches further increase her arousal, and how fast and intense she prefers it. Embark on a journey of discovery and learn more about her body and her desire. This will also benefit you in other sexual practices and positions.
With cunnilingus, you also show that you really care about her and her pleasure. Whether you prefer foreplay or oral sex, it is in any case a great proof of your affection for your girl.
Even if it seems like cunnilingus is only for her, don’t underestimate its effect on you. Watching how she reacts to your tongue play can be very arousing for you, too.
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Say what you want
There is no good cunnilingus without communication. You need to know what her expectations and desires are. Any concerns should also be addressed before you begin pleasuring her orally.
Every woman is different. This means that, unfortunately, you can’t rely on your wealth of experience from previous relationships. Perhaps one of your ex girlfriends particularly enjoyed being stimulated in one way or another with your mouth and tongue, but your current partner finds it a total turn-off. Ask around and adapt. Get feedback to be sure, and ask her for an honest answer. This is the only way to find out for sure what she enjoys most when it comes to cunnilingus.
Take the opportunity to ask her what she expects from a good cunnilingus. Is cunnilingus intended to relax her? Is it meant to whet her appetite for subsequent sexual intercourse? Or does she want you to be rough? Adapt to the response and turn your next cunnilingus into a sensual firework of pleasure.
Different positions
The reverse cowgirl position. In the classic cowgirl position, the man is on the bottom and the woman is on top. She maintains eye contact with him. In the reverse cowgirl position, the woman sits on top of the man, facing his legs. She still has control over the rhythm and intensity, while he can take care of her butt and enjoy the amazing view.
The 69 position. In this position, you can indulge each other orally. Lie sideways so that you can stimulate her erogenous zones with your mouth and tongue – for a sensual give-and-take.
Doggy Style Oral. For this position, she gets on all fours so that he can reach her erogenous zones from behind. This allows her to focus 100% on their own pleasure while their partner enjoys a wonderful view. A plus: In this position, it’s also possible to simultaneously stimulate the clitoris, the vagina and lick the anus (or maybe slip a finger or two inside).
Tips for more pleasure during cunnilingus
- Tongue Play. Use your tongue in different ways to pleasure her. Play with the speed, pressure, and movements to trigger infinitely intense waves of pleasure. Let her relax by using slow movements. Speed up to increase her arousal and intensify the pressure to provoke an explosive climax. Try everything and discover together what she likes best.
- The finger skills. Through the simultaneous stimulation of the clitoris andG-spotYou can create even more powerful orgasms. Stimulate the clitoris with your tongue while massaging the G-spot with your fingers. This is a guarantee for the grand finale.
- The suction technique. The oral pleasure program of cunnilingus includes not only licking, but also sucking. It’s important not to overdo it. The clitoris, in particular, is very sensitive. Therefore, it’s better to start a little gently and then gradually build up.
- The sex toy. A sex toy brings even more variety to oral sex. You may be particularly interested in a clitoral stimulator with movable tongue, vibrators or special sex toys for the G-spot massage. Before using a sex toy, ask her if she consents.
- Other erogenous zones. Cunnilingus focuses on the vulva and clitoris. However, that doesn’t mean you should completely ignore the other erogenous zones. Her butt, stomach, or breasts are also receptive to your caresses.