Want more fun with your solo play? Whether you have no experience or plenty of experience, our tips will help you achieve a much more satisfying masturbation experience. Join us to discover how better understanding your own body can help you experience moments of pure solo bliss.
Self-satisfaction is a completely natural process that is also beneficial for male health and general well-being. Because masturbation can quickly become routine, we decided to offer practical tips for better solo sex with this guide. We’ll show you how you can indulge yourself with the right preparation and a few suitable tools and techniques. Of course, there are no hard and fast rules. The important thing is that you do what you enjoy most.
The right place for masturbation
It is not always easy to find a quiet place to masturbate, especially if you are still living with your parents or in a shared apartment. Ideally, there should be a lockable room where you can be undisturbed for the duration of your self-pleasuring session. It might be worth putting a lock on your bedroom door so you can enjoy the comfort of your own bed while masturbating. If you share a room with someone else or you can’t lock your bedroom, the bathroom or shower can also be good options. The important thing is to choose a place where you feel comfortable and relaxed.
Suitable tools
For an optimal masturbation experience, you need a few tools, which you should choose carefully. A good lubricant, preferably water-based, is essential for a natural and intense sensation. It reduces unpleasant friction and improves lubrication, so that you can experience a sensation while masturbating that is very close to real sex. If you want, you can also watch porn on your phone or another device to stimulate your imagination. Also, remember to keep some tissues handy for cleaning yourself or the sheets afterward.
Basic principles
It’s actually very simple: simply move your hand up and down your penis. You can easily modify this basic movement as needed by experimenting with speed and pressure. Take your time to find out what gives you the most pleasure and adjust your technique accordingly.
Variations for variety
You can vary the basic movement for more variety by experimenting with the following techniques:
- The goal of edging is to prolong the pleasure of masturbation as much as possible by repeatedly approaching orgasm and then stopping stimulation.
- Alternate between fast and slow movements and vary the pressure on the penis to try different techniques.
- Masturbating with your non-dominant hand can feel completely different. The method of switching hands may even produce unique pleasures for you, as your non-dominant hand is usually less accustomed to classic masturbation movements. Masturbating with your non-dominant (usually the left hand) hand can also improve your overall dexterity.
- Enclose the penis with your closed fist and make slow, smooth movements.
- Stimulation of the glans: focus on the glans of your penis, making circular movements with your thumb and index finger. If you find the glans too sensitive, you can use lubricant.
- Mental stimulation through fantasies can greatly intensify arousal, pleasure, and the resulting orgasm. A fantasy allows you to explore your own preferences and various scenarios without any taboos, thus significantly enriching the masturbation experience.
These techniques and tips are just a few of the many possible variations. Try out whatever you’re interested in and experiment with openness and curiosity. This way, you’ll quickly find out what you enjoy most.
Hygiene
Don’t forget to clean yourself thoroughly after masturbating. At first, wiping away the semen with a tissue may be enough. However, cleaning yourself better and more thoroughly in the shower is a better option. This is why the bathroom is such a good place to masturbate! If your semen lands on the sheets, don’t worry. Semen can be easily washed out. The same applies to water-based lubricants. If you’ve used a shared room for masturbation, make sure you leave the room clean, just as you found it, to ensure everyone involved is comfortable and hygienic.
Sex toys for men
Once you’ve become a true expert in manual masturbation, you can also try a sex toy. How about, for example:
- Cock ring: A penis ring strengthens and firms the erection, delays orgasm and at the same time ensures that it is more intense.
- Butt plug or prostate massager: A butt plug, anal beads or a prostate massager gives you unique feelings of pleasure.
- Masturbator or Pocket pussy: the realistically designed opening and the realistic material can give you a feeling of pleasure that is very similar to real penetration.
- Realistic sex doll. For an even more realistic masturbation experience, you can also try using a realistic sex doll. This will give you an even stronger impression of being with a real person.
Masturbating with sex toys is a real enrichment for your solo pleasure and allows you to discover new facets and sources of pleasure.
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