The truth is, a penis that’s too big can be painful during penetration, making sex sometimes more of a punishment than a pleasure. Do you know this problem? Here is how to make your love life pleasurable and enjoyable again, without upsetting your partner.
Create a relaxed atmosphere
A pleasant atmosphere will help her relax before, during, and after sex. Choose some pleasant background music, light a few candles, or take a hot bath before getting down to business. With the right mood, that huge cock can do wonders.
Take plenty of time for your foreplay
If you have a very big penis, the erotic foreplay is even more important. Foreplay awakens desire and passion. It makes your penis larger and firmer, but also her vagina becomes wider and wetter, making penetration easier. Stimulate each other’s erogenous zones, kiss and stroke yourself or use sex toys (for example a vibrator or a dildo) to get you in the mood. There are so many possibilities! Talk to each other and find out together what arouses your desire the most!
Don’t go cheap on the lubricant
A lubricant reduces friction and makes lovemaking more enjoyable and pleasurable, especially if you have a very large penis. If you don’t already have a favorite lubricant, choose a high-quality lubricant and test its compatibility before sex.
The different lubricants on the market differ in their composition and properties. For example, there are water-based, silicone-based, or oil-based lubricants. Water-based lubricants are usually somewhat cheaper. They are also easy to wash off. They also evaporate faster than silicone-based lubricants. Silicone-based lubricants, on the other hand, offer a long-lasting lubricating film. They can even be used underwater. For silicone sex toys and certain Condoms. However, silicone-based lubricants are not suitable.
No matter which lubricant you choose, you should never skimp on it. You can also add more as needed. Talk to your partner if you find that the lubrication isn’t sufficient for you. Communication and trust are key to everything in the bedroom and a fulfilling sex life. This applies to everything, regardless of the size of your penis.
Try sex toys
If you have an above-average penis, a sex toy can be the solution for both of you. A vibrator or a clitoral stimulator brings female desire to full speed and improves her pleasure experience.
If you’d like, you can also use a sex toy to prepare her body for your extra-large penis. A vaginal dilator is ideal for this. A dilator set, which includes several vaginal dilators of different diameters, is particularly useful. This way, you can start with the smallest dilator and gradually increase the size until your vagina is perfectly prepared.
Talk to each other
Communication in the relationship is always necessary for a satisfying sex life. Tell her if you’re uncomfortable with something or if something doesn’t suit you. It might also be worth trying out different positions that she finds more comfortable. Give it time and show each other how much trust and respect you have. This will also revive desire and passion.
Nothing works anymore? Then stop with the penetration!
Penetration isn’t the only way to enjoy each other. If, despite numerous attempts, sex doesn’t bring both of you pleasure, but instead causes frustration and perhaps even pain, simply stop and try other methods to delight each other. How about a sensual partner massage, for example, or another position where you can orgasm without penetration? Be open and try everything you can imagine, such as a blow job or anal sex. Share your preferences, needs, and fantasies, and discover new facets of shared pleasure together.
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