We all have them, whether we want to admit it or not: sex fantasies are normal and part of everyone’s daily life. Of course, the numbers fluctuate with age, and a grandpa probably thinks about sex less often than a young student. Nevertheless, one thing is certain: on average, men have dirty thoughts about 34 times a day, while women have lascivious mental images about 19 times a day. But what exactly are they thinking about? What is normal and what is unusual? We’ve done some research and can reassure you: even the wicked, dirty, and sometimes offensive mental images show the same movie as most of the people around you. Want details? Then let’s get started!
Submissive games and BDSM
Ever since “50 Shades of Grey,” these terms have become familiar to most people. And there’s a reason for the hype. The thought of being subjugated and literally “used” by a man is by far the most common sexual fantasy among women! The feeling of completely relinquishing control simply turns most women on. Especially in the bedroom, it can be quite liberating not to have to make a decision or even be asked. For many, the dirty thoughts go even further. From humiliation to downright forced sex, some ladies are up for anything! Most of the time, cum on the body, anal or deepthroat are on the menu.
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A quick threesome. Or foursome
Second place is equally popular for men and women. Threesome sex is a very exciting thought for most, and the possibilities for stimulation are virtually limitless. Women most often think of a fling with two men, while 60% of men desire more participants in group sex. This fantasy can also be pursued. Volunteers can be found on special dating sites, in swingers clubs or in escort agencies. Whether solo or as a couple, sex with multiple partners gives many people butterflies in their stomach, at least in their heads. Want to take the plunge and find an additional partner in a hot club? Then you’ll find seductive outfits for your first erotic party here.
Being watched during lovemaking
22% of women would find it arousing to be caught or even watched during sex. The thought of someone lasciviously looking at a woman’s writhing body and more closely inspecting her lovemaking creates tension and gives a feeling of being in the spotlight. Incidentally, this sexual fantasy only ranks fifth for men. Indulging in desire in public is a little too risky for most people, but a swingers club is a good option for this too. If you want to be watched but don’t want to be recognized, we recommend 2 things: an escort or an eye mask. Or both. It’s aesthetically pleasing but covers one-third of the face. This way you can live out your sex fantasies without taking too much risk.
Dominance
Far below submissiveness, but still in fourth place, are thoughts of very dominant sex for women. Commanding a helpless man, giving him clear instructions, or chastising him is something that particularly turns some women on.
Not only restraints and whips play a role here, but also sex toys are very popular: Forcing a man to leave his best part in his pants and instead pick up a vibrator and completely delight his sweetheart is an appealing idea for some.
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Sex with a stranger
The idea of experiencing an erotic night with a complete stranger drives many women crazy. You barely know each other, you have no habits or routines, the cards are reshuffled, so to speak, and anything can happen. You don’t know the other person’s idiosyncrasies or what the act will feel like. Sounds tempting, doesn’t it? But to feel the tension and excitement, you don’t have to roam around dark corners and shady bars.
Try role-playing!
Depending on your desires and wishes, you can slip into the role of a stewardess who takes care of an important businessman on a private jet, or the wicked housekeeper who wants to cheer up her suffering husband. You’ll surely come up with plenty of sexy scenarios to indulge in!
In the men’s world, a night of love with a celebrity or a pornstar takes fourth place, while fifth place is a spontaneous blowjob in between.
Be that as it may, our little movies in our heads sweeten our everyday lives or sometimes even accompany us during sensual solo sex. As we can see, we all have our dirty thoughts, and no one should be ashamed of them. And only a few of them involve roses, candles, and their husbands. If you feel like sharing one or two fantasies with your loved one and putting them into practice, then feel free to do so! If not, just give us a call and you can book a couple of bisexual escorts so you can fulfill at least one fantasy.