Does submission work outside the home? There are many ways a BDSM slave can serve the Dom!
Domination and submission are usually directly associated with sexual power games. But they’re so much more than that! Even in daily family life, there are plenty of opportunities for every Dom and Sub to continue the dynamic in plain sight!
Always ask your Dominus what you can do for him
We don’t know how it is for you BDSM slaves out there, but a Dominatrix should know exactly what she wants, when she wants it, and most importantly, how she wants it. Communication is the core element of BDSM and should be primary in play between sub and Dom. Simply ask your Dominatrix: How can I serve you?
As a Sub, you can make suggestions to your Dominatrix about how you would like to submit to her. She has the final say, nevertheless. Remember, not even a Dominatrix can’t read minds. That’s why it’s especially important to communicate your boundaries to her.
Show your Dominus extra respect
Many BDSM partners have families with children. We have to discreetly conceal our little BDSM games between submissive and dominant, but we don’t ignore them in our daily lives.
The little things, like making sure her glass is always full at dinner, are particularly discreet. No one is suspecting anything. As a Sub, you show your Dominatrix the respect she deserves, even in public. No matter who’s around, you submit to her in the way she wants and appreciates it. She treats you with the same respect and courtesy you show her.
Disobedience and disrespect are never ignored or forgotten. Never argue in front of children, other family members or friends. It’s simply dealt with later, in a way that you will definitely enjoy.
Complete your tasks as a BDSM slave unconditionally
Tasks a BDSM slave can perform for his Dominatrix are at least as varied as we are ourselves. That’s why there are so many ways to submit to your Dominatrix in a non-sexual way. Starting with serving her favorite meal, it can be pretty much anything that makes her life easier.
Other assigned duties or tasks help maintain the dynamic between Sub and Dom, especially when the dreary routine of everyday life tries to creep back in. Let your Dom dictate your daily wardrobe, insist on sleeping handcuffed and wearing a choker, or kneel before her.
The mere thought of it automatically catapults you out of your everyday role and back into that of a BDSM slave. This works particularly well on a stressful day with sometimes rather uncooperative guys or demanding clients at work.
Communication guarantees a healthy relationship between a BDSM slave and Dom.
You can only integrate submission and domination into your daily using communication. Talk to your Dom about your desires, boundaries and taboos. Always tell her if you feel hurt or offended. Feel equally free to ask your Dominatrix how you may submit to her and, at the same time, let her know if you are overwhelmed by anything. This way, you avoid boundary violations and maintain a healthy relationship between Sub and Dom.
We know that as a good BDSM slave, aman wants to submit to his Dominatrix unconditionally. But submission also has clearly defined limits, and as many Doms like to say: you can’t play with a broken toy. Too much submission is bad in any relationship, and you’re not doing either of you any favours. Sooner or later, your interest in each other is gone. That’s why we can’t say this often enough: only when you communicate your boundaries clearly can you serve your Dominatrix pleasurably and, above all, without suffering. Unless humiliation is specifically requested, of course.
Long story short! Everyday submission can’t compare to an incredible domination sexual experience in the bedroom. But it can be just as erotic and fulfilling. And we guarantee you that from our own experience!
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