The idea usually arrives months before the doing of it. Somebody mentions striptease at a hen do, or it comes up in a podcast, or you watch a film and think oh, hm, maybe. Then nothing happens for ages, because the gap between “I’d like to try this” and actually playing a song and unbuttoning […]
There’s the kind of sex where you spend twenty minutes just lying there afterwards with your face pressed into the back of someone’s neck, not saying much. And there’s the kind where the lamp gets knocked off the bedside table and you find a bruise on your hip three days later you don’t remember earning. […]
The question turns up somewhere around the third or fourth time you go down on someone. Maybe earlier. There’s a split-second decision to make and nobody briefed you on it beforehand. Nobody briefs anyone on it. The internet has opinions, your mates have opinions, the last guy you slept with definitely had opinions – and […]
Watch someone browsing pet play accessories online and it’s tempting to file the whole thing under costume interest. Ears, tails, cute collars. The visual framing is the first thing outsiders see, and it makes the practice look like adult dress-up. The costume is the least interesting part. What actually distinguishes pet play from wearing themed […]
Fart fetish has existed as long as anything else people find arousing. What’s changed recently is the visibility. Ten years ago, the interest lived in a handful of dedicated forums and specialist producers most people never encountered. In 2026, it’s a category with active creators, dedicated platforms, and a level of commercial infrastructure that would […]
The word turned into an internet joke before most people understood what it named. Watch enough short-form video and you’ll see gooning used as shorthand for slack-jawed obsession with anything – a phone, a game, a person. That framing has almost nothing to do with what practitioners actually do, and it obscures a specific mental […]
Wednesday night in mid-June. The line for Frank’s Café in Peckham already runs down the staircase by quarter past seven. Two people who matched on Hinge a week ago are halfway up it, working out from each other’s nervous laughter whether this is going somewhere. The light has another hour in it. The drinks are […]
A Thursday in late May, around half six. The pavement outside the Walmer Castle on Ledbury Road is three-deep with people on the kind of half-date that wouldn’t have happened in February. Drinks after work that drift into dinner because nobody wants to leave. A long, slow walk down toward Westbourne Park. The light hasn’t […]
Roleplay covers more ground than most people picture. A maid outfit on a Friday night, or a nurse uniform left out on the bed before someone gets in from work. At the other end, the slow build of a kidnap scenario worked out over months of conversation. British couples have been quietly doing all of […]
Most kink that outsiders find easiest to picture also turns out to be hardest to explain. Wax dripped onto skin. The squeak of latex pulled tight against a forearm. Most British adults have brushed against one of these in some form, often without even realising that’s what it was. A smaller crowd has built proper […]
Ask anyone who’s spent time in the UK kink scene what people are quietly into, and feet will come up first nearly every time. There’s a proper name for fetishes that lock onto one bit of the body instead of the whole package: partialism. Feet, hands, hair, lips, the lot. Most of us have a […]
Ask a man what he loves in bed and you’ll get an answer so generic it tells you nothing. It’s not that men don’t think about it. Men learned early that speaking their thoughts about what they like in bed leads nowhere good, so they stopped. They adapt, they settle, and they hope their partner […]
Most articles about this subject are written by people who’ve clearly never had a good time in bed. Vague, safe, forgettable. This one isn’t. These are the things women actually want – said plainly, by one of them. 1. Wanting Her. Not just sex. She can tell the difference within minutes. A man who wants […]
The threesome fantasy is more or less universal. A research conducted by Dr. Justin Lehmiller for the Kinsey Institute, published in “Tell Me What You Want” and based on 4175 people aged 18 to 87, found that 97% of men and 87% of women had fantasised about sex with more than one person – making […]
Ask ten people in the kink community what edging means and at least three will describe teasing. Ask about tease and denial and someone will mention orgasm control as if they’re the same thing. They’re not. These are distinct practices with different mechanisms and different effects, and using the wrong term doesn’t just cause confusion […]
Most articles on this topic are written by people who’ve read about femdom rather than people who’ve been in it. They talk about “power exchange” and “dynamics” in language so careful it tells you nothing. This one won’t do that. If your girlfriend is a femdom and you’re trying to understand what that means in […]
Most guides to backdoor sex read like they were written by someone who’s never actually tried it. Vague enthusiasm, no practical detail, the same three positions listed in a different order. This isn’t that guide. A-level sex – anal, backdoor, buttfuck, whatever you want to call it – requires more preparation and more communication than […]
Most clients who browse the uniform and roleplay section of an escort agency don’t fully understand the differences between the categories. They see the outfits, they pick the one that appeals visually, and they book. Sometimes that works out. Often it doesn’t – not because the companion is wrong, but because the client has booked […]
Foot fetishism has always existed. What’s changed is that nobody’s particularly embarrassed about it anymore. The shift has been gradual and then sudden – the way most cultural changes happen. The foot fetish used to be the kind of thing you didn’t mention in mixed company. Now it gets discussed in mainstream podcasts, on TV […]
Most people’s first encounter with the sissy fetish is through a description that makes it sound stranger than it is. A man in a frilly dress being humiliated by a woman. That’s the tabloid version. The reality is more layered, more varied, and considerably more interesting once you get past the surface. This is a […]
Does submission work outside the home? There are many ways a BDSM slave can serve the Dom! Domination and submission are usually directly associated with sexual power games. But they’re so much more than that! Even in daily family life, there are plenty of opportunities for every Dom and Sub to continue the dynamic in […]
Orgasm control sounds like a contradiction at first glance. After all, isn’t the whole point of sex to let go, which means gradually losing control? It’s precisely this understanding that orgasm denial, as a kink, exploits. Another person takes control of sexual arousal. They determine how long one has to wait for orgasm (edging) and […]
Does your girlfriend want to masturbate together, but you’re having second thoughts? Isn’t that just her way to show you she’s open to new things? Sex is only getting better, unless you say no. You should understand why she wants to watch you masturbate – because we love watching women touch themselves. You suspect that […]
Many submissive men have the same idea of what a dominant woman should be like. These ideas sound more like a cartoon of a FemDom. They want a woman who’s constantly dressed in high heels and latex, wielding a whip. Sure, that can be fun – in moderation. But we’re looking for real relationships where, […]
There’s a version of this conversation that gets awkward fast – someone mentions hair pulling in a sexual context and the room either goes quiet or someone makes a joke. Neither response is particularly useful. Hair is one of the most common erotic triggers in the kink community, it has a well-developed practice around it, […]
For rope bunnies, the greatest pleasure is being playfully tied up and relinquishing control. But there’s an even more extreme form of bondage, where a touch, or even a whole lot, of sadism is added to the restraints. Here is a guide that makes it possible to try out this interesting technique. Want a bondage […]
Forced bi (forced bisexuality) is a BDSM scenario in which a dominant partner makes the Sub engage in sexual activity with someone of the same sex. This practice is frequently seen in heterosexual relationships, with the Dom partner often being female and the submissive partner male. The motivation behind such scenarios can be both the […]
Does the mind take you back to the dungeon in Pulp Fiction, where Bruce Willis and Ving Rhames were held? The dungeon, the leather, the restraints, the mask and full bondage suit – all these make us very horny. A lot of fetishes in this fabulous movie.. Impact play, whether it takes place in a […]
It has a reputation like an old sofa: comfortable, familiar, just there – but exciting? Not at all. The missionary position has long been relegated to the ” boring, because it’s vanilla-sweet ” category. But in reality, it’s the opposite: incredibly intimate, surprisingly versatile, and packed with possibilities for all those who crave closeness, control, […]
We have found the question of the “perfect session” in some forum, where the questioner aimed to explore how striving for “technical perfection” affects the dynamics of the event: Isn’t it off-putting when the active participant is too concerned with the technical aspects? We believe that perfection and dynamism are not opposites: only when the […]
Anyone who gives a chance to BDSM will encounter a wide variety of preferences. One of these is flagellation. This involves a particular form of power play – the corporal punishment, to be precise, and this specific type is also categorized as reaction fetishism. What is flagellation? Flagellation involves whipping – a form of punishment […]
Is female domination the other side of domination? Far from it. Anyone expecting to find as much information on this topic as on male domination in the BDSM scene will be largely disappointed. While there is a lot of information on female submissiveness, there is very little – at least in the private sphere – […]
When the topic of humiliation comes up in a BDSM community, opinions are divided: some reject all practices that could be perceived as degrading. Others deny their humiliating nature, arguing that everything is consensual. Many, however, admit to being turned on by humiliation and aroused by it, but we rarely read anything about why this […]
If you’re unsure whether you want to be a BDSM Dom or a Sub, why not try being a Switch? You can find out exactly what a Switch is and how exciting the role can be here. BDSM stands for the three word pairs: ” Bondage&Discipline, Domination&Submission, Sadism &Masochism”, and because of its central position, […]
Fetishes from A to Z: this is a list of the most common and daring sex practices. Knowing what matters When it comes to fetishes, it’s important – as is almost always the case with sex – to know exactly what you’re trying, which aspects might be pleasurable, and what problems could arise. And: how […]
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The girl next door is your first crush. Your first kiss. Your first sex partner. Your almost (but never) first sex partner. Your first blowjob, your first anal experience, your first .. something. It’s the neighbour’s daughter, your best friend’s sister, the young lady across the street that showed you her big tits for delivering […]
Everything is fair in sex! For this reason, many try to expand their knowledge in the art of sex and we encourage you all to explore new forms of pleasure. One of these pleasures is anilingus, or anal rimming. Although it’s a practice surrounded by various myths, many men and women are currently enjoying the […]
Sadism and masochism are about obtaining sexual pleasure from pain. One by causing it, the other by receiving it. Sadists get pleasure from causing pain, humiliation or dominating the others, and masochists experience arousal and satisfaction through their own pain and stinging sensations. How do you get pleasure from pain? Practical Applications in BDSM Sadism […]
Hair is fascinating for many people, and sometimes is related to sex. Sometimes it’s love for one’s own hair, other times it’s worshipping their partners’ hair. This hair fetish manifests through fascination with the texture, scent, or movement of the hair, and is also linked to profound psychological aspects related to identity, desire, and intimate […]
Naked cleaning is an arousing fetish. Many men and women secretly fantasize about sex with the maid or at least having a naked cleaning lady dusting and bending over. The maid fetish combines BDSM humiliation with exhibitionistic nudity. The very act of combining everyday chores with a sexual game is what makes it so appealing. […]
Who hasn’t, while watching porn, imagined themselves as a performer on the set? Perhaps even having sex with a complete stranger? Or with an actual pornstar? Or blonde twins? A privately filmed porn movie with your own partner can provide a first taste of this. Sex filmed with other or multiple partners is an intensification […]
Men simply can’t help themselves – high heels are eye-catching, and that’s exactly what they do: look! At the long, slender legs of a woman whose feet look even more alluring in high heels, and certainly not just to shoe or foot fetishists. Whether with a miniskirt or fitted jeans, stilettos complete any feminine outfit. […]
Your girlfriend asks for a spanking, while putting a riding crop into your hand. Did that ever happen? Is it possible to inflict real pain on your lover during lovemaking, when she kneels before you wearing nothing but a garter belt and stockings? Spanking originates in BDSM, which is making its way into our bedrooms. […]
The erotic art of bondage originates from BDSM. It’s a sexual practice involving role-playing around submission and domination. The dominance of the Domina or Master is primarily expressed through the restraint of the slave. Those who practice this fetish use specialized bondage toys, which are described in more detail in this guide. The classic: The […]
How to properly tie up your partner When practicing bondage, trust between partners is essential. Amazing sex can be experienced with bondage play. To fully explore your bondage fetish, there are a few things to keep in mind. Below are some general tips and tricks on restraints, materials, knots, and safety information for you. The […]
The mask fetish is a trending sex thing that has gained popularity in the adult industry. This fetish not only addresses mystery and identity games, but also touches on deep aspects of human psychology related to anonymity, fantasy, and the liberation from inhibitions. One can wear a mask at a sex party, swinger party or […]
Anal with escorts is a trend. Many want to try it through the services of escort agencies. Whether it’s curiosity, the lack of a sexual relationship, the lack of anal sex in a relationship – men love anal and often call an A-level escort. However, to enjoy it safely, you should be aware of some […]
As is well known, someone who starts jogging can suffer terribly from the exertion and unfamiliar movement, but a few months later the morning jogging session has become a pleasurable experience: one can become addicted to it, say many who enjoy running. Over time, the body adapts, learns to make the best of the new […]
The question of the “meaning,” or rather the how and why, of SM sessions WITHOUT traditional intercourse ending with orgasm is frequently asked. The saying “Sadomasochists don’t have sex” persists as a not entirely serious running joke throughout the scene’s forums. But what’s the real story behind “SM without sex”? If you want some fetish […]